The world of parents through the eyes of children

    A child who is born and lives in a full-fledged family, that is, with a mother and father, is already a lucky man in his own way. After all, single mothers are all too common today. People have completely forgotten or do not understand that the main thing in creating a family is love. The love between a man and a woman. And from this love comes their baby.

The first months

Already in the first months of life, the baby observes his surroundings. Naturally, his main objects are mom and dad. He follows them, tries to understand them, and soon afterwards, tries to communicate his needs to them. For the first three years of his life, he absorbs information at the speed of sound. Words, facial expressions, emotions, gestures - all this baby is trying to remember and reproduce.

It is interesting when the second or third child is born. After all, the main and interesting objects also become older siblings. And already the example is taken not only from their parents. Often all of the subsequent children are much better and smarter.

Do not sacrifice yourself

Today, women who raise a child on their own, fully concert their attention and whole life on him. Thus committing an irreparable mistake. Such "sacrifices" as not wanting to have a man by her side until the child grows up, to suffer at three jobs and even the night shift, to dress and pamper - it's all for nothing.

And then even reproach for giving the best years of your life to an ungrateful child. After all, it's obvious that your baby's happiness depends directly on your own happiness. Single moms just have to deal with themselves and their lives. You have to be a good example for your child, an idol, to do what you love, which brings you pleasure.

Don't impose your opinion

You can't try to impose your opinion on a child and shield them from all of life's mistakes. Your unrealized plans and dreams should also be kept to yourself. A child is a new person, a completely different person who came into this life with his own purpose and destiny. And he only has the right to decide for himself. Yes, it is your legitimate responsibility to guide and advise. But the ultimate choice is his.

Responsibility

Parents of young children should work hard on themselves. After all, you are under scrutiny 24 hours a day. Every awkward movement, inappropriate word or aggression will be used against you. Be acute in quarrels. In no case should not allow the presence of the child during such scenes. After all, kids are all acute feelings, painfully experiencing and, in general, take it personally. The child must grow up in a calm atmosphere, with balanced and cheerful parents. It should accustom him to the order and value of things.